Here are a few casual examples of wedding invitation wording hosted by divorced parents jointly:

Matthew and Lucielle Thomas
with Kara Perry
invite you to the wedding of their daughter
Laura Rae Thomas
to
Johnathan Samuel Holmes
Saturday, May 17, 2008
at 4:30 in the afternoon

Matthew and Lucielle Thomas
with Kara Perry
invite you to share in their joy at the marriage of their daughter
Laura Rae Thomas
to
Johnathan Samuel Holmes
Saturday, May 17, 2008
at 4:30 in the afternoon


Matthew and Lucielle Thomas
with Kara Perry
invite you to share and celebrate at the marriage of their daughter
Laura Rae Thomas
to
Johnathan Samuel Holmes
Saturday, May 17, 2008
at 4:30 in the afternoon

Things to remember: list whomever is paying for the majority of the wedding first.